Love styles are models of how people love, originally developed by John Lee (1973,[1] 1988[2]). He identified six basic love styles—also known as "colors" of love—that people use in their interpersonal relationships:
- Eros – a passionate physical and emotional love based on aesthetic enjoyment; stereotype of romantic love
- Ludus – a love that is played as a game or sport; conquest; may have multiple partners at once
- Storge – an affectionate love that slowly develops from friendship, based on similarity (kindred to Philia)
- Pragma – love that is driven by the head, not the heart; undemonstrative
- Mania – obsessive love; experience great emotional highs and lows; very possessive and often jealous lovers
- Agape – selfless altruistic love; spiritual;
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ReplyDeleteI'm Eros all the way baby, and my Piano Man is the same, so you know we gross people out of out never too shy displays of affection.
ReplyDeleteI think my husband and I are mainly storge now, although it used to be eros and sometimes mania. Oh, those were the days. ;)
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Very interesting post. Hubby and I are a blend of eros, storge and agape.
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